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Did you tear with your second baby?

Ava   
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07 August 2014 2181 5
With my first I had a 3rd degree tear, for no apparent reason. I was fully dilated and it still took me 2hours to push him out. He was 3,7kg , so kind of normal size I would say, so big for 3 weeks early. He was in a good position and the midwife did a episiotomy when he just wouldn�t come out. I did a perineal massage for at least 6 weeks before birth and I still had a bad tear.
After I had him they said if I have to give birth again they will offer me an elective c-section, but I want a natural birth again, just want to find out how likely it is to tear so badly again. I couldn't walk properly for 2 weeks and even after that was in a lot of pain if I had to walk longer walks up to 8 weeks after and still was in slight pain till 6 months after.
Is there anything I can do to prevent it?

Rheanna

Name: Rheanna
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Rheanna
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   18 August 2014
With my first The Dr gave me an almost 4th degree cut. My next 2 babies were born at home with no tears or cuts at all. And they were both over 9lbs!

Jo80

Name: Jo
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Jo80
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   17 October 2014
I did tear with my second, but the tear was minor compared to my first 4 degree tear.

Leanne

Name: Leanne
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Leanne
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   05 December 2014
I tore a little with my fisrs two babies, and both times only 2 stitches were required. My last baby was larger, so they performed an epistomy. I was surprised that my recovery from it was faster and easier than from natural tears.They say it's usually the other way around.

Ava

Name: Ava
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Ava
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   12 January 2015
Quote: #239 Leanne 05 December 2014, 15:01
I tore a little with my fisrs two babies, and both times only 2 stitches were required. My last baby was larger, so they performed an epistomy. I was surprised that my recovery from it was faster and easier than from natural tears.They say it's usually the other way around.
Yes. I heard that two, but a friend of mine also noticed that epistomy gave her a faster and easier recovery. 
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